Friday, October 22, 2010

From Dakar ... with love



I am passing a difficult phase of my life, where I question everything, especially the labels I am carrying and my multiple identity, I hate being in a box and can not be out of it, I hate when people do not bother to explore me and prejudge me. Sometimes I ask myself why I am labeled with certain affiliations , do I choose all the relations I enter in, why are people assuming ideas about me.
These are the questions that come again and again to my mind in the first day of the 3rd African feminist forum, AFF is gathering women from all over the continent . we are four from Egypt and very few from North Africa.
In this AFF I felt the power of connections and the importance of sharing knowledge and building capacities, however although all the positive vibes and the good points I am seeing in the AFF, I was sorry for the weak participation from the Arabs or the North African region, although I felt cherish by the people I already  know before the AFF and others know I just know many showed a very welcoming attitude
What stroked me is the North African and how they are exerting effort to assert their African identity, in Egypt the population defined itself as Arabs and Muslims and the African identity is only just shown in the Nubian minority or when we engage African in sports and cultural activities.
Seriously I can be African, Muslim, North African, Egyptian and before all of this is I am Nubian, and I am happy with that and my labels are not in conflict with each other.
I am so happy in Dakar, I feel the peace and solidarity and I will carry all the positive vibes back with me to Beloved Cairo .

3 comments:

StandTall-The Activist said...

The attitude of North Africa baffles me to no end. I wonder why the mentality of wanting to be part of Africa. Seriously?

I wish I were at Dakar with you all!

Fatma Emam said...

well my dear, consider their complicated situation, the struggle with the identity politics is horrible, are we north african or Mediterranean, or Arabs or Muslims . i pity North Africans
next time we will attend the AFF together in sha allah

StandTall-The Activist said...

You right about the 'identity politics'. See you at the next AFF!